The title of this article is "How do you find happiness?" since this is exactly what we all are seeking to find. It seems we humans get the impression that happiness is something that can be found. As a result, we are all looking for happiness based on what we find. What is happiness? We assume it is something we can discover. We base how to be happy on the experience of 'what it WILL BE like'.
In other words, we relate happiness to our idea(s) of what we think happiness is or what we feel we need to find in order to experience happiness:
"If only I had enough money, then I could final be happy."
"If only I found my soul mate... "
"If only I had a job I liked... "
"If only... "
Whatever it might be for each individual, we all have our: "If only... then I could be happy."
In other words, we relate happiness to our idea(s) of what we think happiness is or what we feel we need to find in order to experience happiness:
"If only I had enough money, then I could final be happy."
"If only I found my soul mate... "
"If only I had a job I liked... "
"If only... "
Whatever it might be for each individual, we all have our: "If only... then I could be happy."