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i always want to know what to do if you know that you are not wrong than also all the person in circle of you were saying you had done wrong. if i want to do something good for them they take it in wrong way and say you are selfish. you had discussed about perspective, but what if your perspective of life cant fit with anyone's mind? if i always had to face the situation in which you are shouting but no one listening to your view, instead they try to make you feel that you are worth for nothing."
You can't get love from others, it's a lost cause. Either love is there or it is not. The problem isn't one of "nobody loving me" it's one of mistaken identity. Next time a thought comes up that "nobody loves me because they think I am wrong" look at that thought and notice what is aware of that thought. Don't move to do anything with that thought, just let the thought be and just notice it being. Notice how the thought is thought and then it fades away. When there is no effort to do anything with it or manipulate it in any way, there seems to be nothing attached to it. Notice how quickly it dissolves when you just become aware of it.
Keep doing this with all thoughts, just let them be and notice what is aware of them being. Notice how without this awareness the thoughts couldn't be because this awareness is the opening in which allows every thought. It just allows every thought. It doesn't think about what is thought, it doesn't try to get rid of the thought, it doesn't move to make the thought feel better.... it just simply notices the thought and watches it fade.
Eventually there will be this seeing that all thoughts are temporary but what notices all thoughts is not temporary, it is permanent and it is whole, complete, full, and unconditionally loving to everything it witnesses. It doesn't need love outside itself because it loves everything outside itself and it is the giving of love. That giving of love is so abundant that it doesn't need love, it is love itself.
I know this is difficult to see from the perspective of how the world looks to you right now, but give this exercise a try:
Everytime you can consciously think of it, rest as the witness that sees the thoughts and yet do nothing with them. You will begin to see that it's not about your perspective of life not fitting with anyone else s mind, but that it's thought being identified with as more than just thought.
Notice how when you believe the thoughts that happen, immediately there is an intense emotion that comes with it. However, when you just notice the thoughts and do nothing with them, they seem dead and hold no energy. Notice how free you are of what anybody else thinks of you because you don't believe your thoughts. Notice how the only problem is believing thoughts and how there is nothing wrong when thoughts are just being aware of. You are free to be in this world just as you are and others are free to be as they are too and there is no conflict because resting as the witness of every thought, this world is no longer made-up of what thoughts seem to be happening, but made up of the space in which notices thoughts.
Try this first thing in the morning, in the afternoon, on your way home, and everytime in between. Rest as awareness everytime you think about it. Notice how every thought is proof-positive that there is an awareness seeing it. Without awareness there would be nothing aware of any thought. It is the foundation and it never moves.
Be sure to let me know how it goes. :)